Thursday, October 29, 2009

Why don’t girls like me?

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Credits to: Ms. Michelle F. Baraseros. Actually I haven't told her yet that i'm going to post her article... well its kinda good right.... so I posted it. It's up to you to judge. Enjoy!

Why don’t girls like me?

It is unrealistic to think that all girls will like you.
By: Michelle F. Baraceros


“Am really impressing her. I told her all about myself. The thing I own, the places I know. She must dying to date me!” A boy said.

You are old enough to date. You like to find someone who is attractive. But each time you tied to start a relationship, you fell crashed and burned. If you like to know a girl better and before you decide to pursue a particular girl, there are some basic skills you need to master. These will help you to be friends with anyone.

Cultivate good manner. Good manner show that you respect others and that you are developing a mature. What girls say: “I definitely find it attractive if a boy showing good manners both in small things, like opening the door for me, and larger things, like being kind and considerate.”

Maintain your personal hygiene. Good hygiene shows respect not only for others but also for you. If you respect yourself, others are more likely to respect you. What girls say: “One boy who was interested in me had really bad breath.”

Cultivate conversation skills. The basic of a lasting relationship is good communication. This involves discussing not only your interests but also the interest of your friend. What girls say: “I am impressed when a boy can converts with me naturally, when he can remember things I told him and can ask questions that keep the conversation moving.”

Applying the above suggestions will help you to enjoy good friendships. However, once you fell that you are ready to start a serious relationship with a particular girl, what should you do?

Take the initiative. If you admire a friend, let her know you are interested in her. What girls say: “I can’t read minds. So if someone wanted to know me, he needs to be honest and straightforward and just tell me.”

Respect the girl’s decision. What if your friend says that she doesn’t want a more serious relationship with you? Just respect her decision. No means no. What girls say: “It irritates me when I say a definite no to a boy but he keeps on trying.”

Some young men fell that they have trouble getting girls to like them. Remember this: How you look on the outside is less important than who you are inside.
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Magazine Project. by Michelle Baraceros

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